Hi I casually dropped it In to conversation with my boyfriend that I was wanting to do glamour modelling etc ... The response I received was completely unexpected. He was livid. Told me if I did it I was a slag, easy all the usual names. Then proceeded to say ur too fat and ugly, no1 would want to see u naked anyway. Which I thought was all pretty unnessecary. I don't know if this has anything to do with his reaction... I'm 22, he's 36. I support him with his job (doorman) he's very good looking and I know he does get alot of attemtion from females (and males) at work, I don't have an issue with that. A jobs a job, its pays the bills. He also has no issue in reading (i say reading, but I hardly think theres much of that going on) the magazines in which girls have their chests out and all the way to too shelf mags.... So If he can read them what's the problem in me having pics took, which realistically are not going to be published in a magazine! I'm well aware of how hard it is to be published etc and carve a career out of it and know I am off nowhere near that quality BUT what Im wondering is... Is he right and with justification or not wanting me to do it? Or am i being unreasonable? Has any1 else ever Had to deal with this and come to am arrangement that suited both etc? Confused ! Thanks Kayleigh x
What do u mean by a red flag for photographers?