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 | 04 August 2012 09:55 |
| kayleigh90x Model  Location United Kingdom Derbyshire | Actually I was asking if it was normal for a boyfriend to react like that because of the nature of it.. its not like im saying I'm going to start being a mobile hairdresser. And he assaulted me. Hence why he has now been charged with assault. Kayleigh |
 | 04 August 2012 09:58 |
| BaileyK Model  Location United Kingdom Hertfordshire | Don't get wound up, Unfortunately you found out the hard way that the guy was a psycho. I suggest, not that you have to its just my opinion, that you ignore this forum post and don't view it again or you will just wind yourself up or upset yourself. If you wish to model then do so... Perhaps next time confide in a friend, this website perhaps wasn't the best place x |
| 04 August 2012 10:02 |
| GaryWallace Photographer Location United Kingdom Dorset Bournemouth |  Quote from vipimagesthat took longer than I thought..... oh dear...  made me spit my coffee out very droll what everyone else said really |
| 04 August 2012 10:08 |
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| vipimages Photographer  Location United Kingdom Merseyside Wirral | Quote from kayleigh90x Actually I was asking if it was normal for a boyfriend to react like that because of the nature of it.. its not like im saying I'm going to start being a mobile hairdresser. And he assaulted me. Hence why he has now been charged with assault. Kayleigh genuinely very sorry to hear that, hope you are ok |
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| Faye Model  Location United Kingdom South Yorkshire Sheffield | not everyone is comfortable with nude modeling but if they express their feelings in a level headed way I see no problem in explaining it to them. If they over react or become controlling or violent, I'd say thats less about modeling and more about their personality and I'd question if you really want to be with someone who feels its ok to treat you in this way. | |
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| 04 August 2012 12:17 |
| JadedRed Model  Location United Kingdom Essex | Quote from Faye not everyone is comfortable with nude modeling but if they express their feelings in a level headed way I see no problem in explaining it to them. If they over react or become controlling If someone is uncomfortable with nude modelling they probably shouldn't be a nude model. But when they start telling someone else not to do it then its controlling. |
 | 04 August 2012 14:46 |
| onebadpuppy Photographer Location United Kingdom Suffolk Bury St Edmunds | I am pleased to see that you have decided that this guy isn't the one for you. In my opinion, it was only a matter of time before he turned up uninvited at a shoot and caused a problem. I had it happen to me once, a model I was working with had a boyfriend who ordered her to pack in modeling and when she refused he came looking for me. I was off work for three weeks with a smashed up hand, I managed to split my knuckes on my left hand in three places and had to have seven stitches in all and left hospital with my hand bandaged to a piece of thick cardboard. Not much fun. I think we can all do without this kind of aggro. |
| 05 August 2012 07:14 |
| SamanthaAlexandra Model  Location United Kingdom Derbyshire Mastin Moor | At the risk of having my head bitten off. I think the reaction is partly normal. Him calling you names and being abusive is really out of order and you should think if you do want to be with someone like that. However him disagreeing with you glamour modeling is quite normal. I think to sime people it can be quite a shock and something Quite hard to get your head around as there are sllot of misconceptions about modeling. People usually react this way when its something they dont understand. But what you do with this info is upto you. |
| 05 August 2012 08:12 |
| MattButlerPhoto Photographer  Location United Kingdom West Yorkshire Bradford | Quote from vipimages this thread should be a red flag for photographers +1 |
| 07 August 2012 12:50 |
| beauvoir Model  Location United Kingdom Birmingham Birmingham | Quote from kayleigh90x Actually I was asking if it was normal for a boyfriend to react like that because of the nature of it.. its not like im saying I'm going to start being a mobile hairdresser. And he assaulted me. Hence why he has now been charged with assault. Kayleigh No, it's not. Not being supportive is one thing, but getting violent and abusive is something totally different. Stay strong. |
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