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Nikkala Ades is off-line
11 July 2012 15:02
N_A_Photography
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N_A_Photography
Location
United Kingdom
Norfolk
Norwich

I've recently been contacted by someone wanting pictures of there kids on there trampoline, I have given the relevant information (price, dates im available) Few messages into talking they now seem to be implying that the I would be left with care of the kids while the mum is out and the dad is working from home, he's said he can see everything that would go on from his window but frankly I don't feel comfortable with his proposition 1. Im not a N_A_Photography is a naughty person baby sitter!!! 2. Being left with there care I don't think is appropriate Am I overthinking the implications this could have or should I say well clear P.s although I am fully able to look after a little person I am frankly not a big fan ( <<<<<< major understatement) of them family photography for me is just money to fill a gap Do I go along with it for the money or should I just let it go?
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Durham Photographics is off-lineSilver Member
11 July 2012 15:37
Sarge
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Sarge
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United Kingdom
County Durham


Let it go.
If they are relatives then that is different and accetpable.
What happens if one hurts themselves on the trampoline?
What happens if one makes an alegation?
You will get the blame probably.

As you said, you are not a baby sitter.


gerryquiff is off-lineSilver Member
11 July 2012 16:10
gerryquiff
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gerryquiff
Location
United Kingdom
Lanarkshire
Bonnie Scotland

Get the money up front, shoot them.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 





Then get the camera out its bag and take some pictures of them 

 
I got a hot rod ford, and a two dollar bill; And I know a spot right over the hill. Theres soda pop and the dancings free So if you wanna have fun, come along with me.


Mansell is off-lineGold Member
11 July 2012 17:48
Mansell
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Mansell
Location
United Kingdom
South Yorkshire
Sheffield

Let it go.

If the parents can't be arsed to spend some time with and supervise their kids whilst you shoot why should you have to? For me, the money wouldn't come into it.

There's no way you should be put in this position of responsibility
You can't depend on your eyes when your imagination is out of focus.


alex crawford is off-lineSilver Member
11 July 2012 19:08
alexcrawford
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alexcrawford
Location
United Kingdom
Essex
Chelmsford

it could be a recipe for disaster or you could
have a great time and get some great shots.
its probably an innocent request to have you
shoot the kids whilst the parents busy themselves elsewhere.

YOUR assessment has to be balancing the risks
against the income and perceived hassle/headaches
which only you can decide upon.

do you have a female helper you could take along?
if i felt exposed to unfounded claims against me but
i wanted the work i would proba bly take an assistant
and a video to record the whole session.

beware of trampolines and excitable kids !
if you do end up shooting prob best to ensure crash mats are present and all metal parts are adequately covered up.

the more i think about it the more i'd insist
a parent was in charge of the kid and you
were there just taking photographs
of what they are doing. your involvement with
the kid being kept minimal.

very difficult call.

please let me know what you decide upon

cheers alex



Nikkala Ades is off-line
11 July 2012 23:40
N_A_Photography
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N_A_Photography
Location
United Kingdom
Norfolk
Norwich

Hey guys thanks for your advice

They are strangers to me never heard or them or met them, if it was a relative I know they wouldn't bother asking me to look after them as they know I'd say no

I think im going to leave it. I just don't see why the parents can't stand there with the kids for an hour

It actually kinda scares me thinking of this situation from the parents view as it something was to happen my first thought would be to blame the person left involved and also (not saying I'd ever do anything as I would never dream of) but they have no idea who I am for all they know I could be a kidnapper or could rob there house!

I think im going to say no, the whole leaving me involved part has put me off
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NWP is off-line
12 July 2012 01:28
shapeman
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shapeman
Location
United Kingdom
Greater Manchester


Would not touch it with a Barge-pole
If everyone demanded peace instead of another television set, then there'd be peace. John Lennon


Davie169 is off-line
12 July 2012 02:52
Davie_Gilfillan_23
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Davie_Gilfillan_23
Location
United Kingdom
County Durham
Durham

Last year on the local news there was a report from A & E saying the most common children's injuries they were seeing was from multiple kids on a trampoline at the same time. Why open yourself up to being blamed for such an accident?


Skymouse is off-lineGold Member
12 July 2012 03:04
skymouse
Photographer
skymouse
Location
United Kingdom
London
London

Disclaimer: I am not a parent so know next to nothing about kids!

That said, I would think that taking charge of a photo session and taking charge of kids both need a high level of focus. I'd consider it impossible to discharge both responsibilities to an acceptable level at the same time.
"Start every day with a smile and get it over with." — W.C. Fields.


Chris Corbin is off-lineSilver Member
12 July 2012 04:17
corbystock
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corbystock
Location
United Kingdom
Hampshire
New Milton

That's some lazy ass parenting if you ask me. I wouldn't do it.
There is a chance that everything I just said is complete bollocks



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