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Iain Thomson is off-linePlatinum Member
16 May 2012 08:55
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Iain I normally agree with many of your posts and respect your opinion and knowledge of the adult industry which I know little about, However on this occasion I have to dissagree. In my opinion this is a form of exploitation and the fact that these people are either too stupid to realise or perhaps even happy, to be exploited doesnt mean its OK for it to happen. I'm quite confident that if it was women being similarly exploited this thread would be taking a very different direction.





I did say that I hadn't seen the programme and my comments were a general view of the sex industry of which Purestorm is a part.

I honestly cannot be bothered watching the programme, although I've just flicked through it now and whilst its obviously exagerated and sensasionalised it does reflect the general attitude of many women involved in the sex industry and that includes modelling.

Also, I wouldn't necessarilly believe the girls line that there is no physical contact, this is often a myth promoted by those involved. In a lot of cases its just good old fashioned hookering dressed up with a fancy name. In a lot of cases the "rinser" has slept with the guy, you can be sure of that...whatever they say to the contrary. Rinsing/escorting/hookering, all the same thing, different title and packaging, same product.

And also, if these guys are savvy enough to earn enough money to appeal to these girls, they are savvy enough to know they are being rinsed, but are happy to live with it.

There is exploitation for sure, but in my opinion each are equally guilty of exploiting the other.
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Yes, mind you there is bugger all in my bank account therefore it would be pointless to try and get anything out of it.

However

£50 for 10 minutes on the phone.

That is £5 per minute.  Beats £6.20 at the local cinema or supermarket and you get to keep your pants on.

I can see why the ladies do it.

They are all excellent business women.

I wonder if they are smart enough to keep their accounts properly.  As after this HMRC will be looking at them carefully.
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Haven't read the entire thread yet, only just started watching it (15 minutes in) and bloody hell this is embarrasing to watch. These girls use their "charm and looks" to make guys buy presents, really "charm and looks"?...

This is purely shocking...
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16 May 2012 09:00
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I actually felt very sorry for the girls. What really came through in the way they spoke was how damaged they all were, and actually really sad not far beneath the surface. I'd lay odds that most of them came from broken homes where they'd suffered the trauma of parental separation, or had early experience of otherwise abusive relationships, and so were driven to this deeply unsatisfying and dishonest substitution activity as a sort of desperate effort to protect themselves from the vulnerability and potential to be hurt (again) that real relationships inevitably expose one to. It's easy to laugh at them and condemn the lies and fraud. But really they badly need counseling.



Oh, please. They are greedy and want to earn easy money, simple as that. Not unusual in business or life and certainly not unusual in the sex industry.

Being in the sex industry will ultimately damage them, thats for sure, but dont assume all the "unfortunate history" stuff applies in most cases, because it simply does not.
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Isn't Rinsing just another word for Sugar Daddies?


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16 May 2012 09:06
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The girl from North Wales took £200 for 6 minutes of abusing someone.

I could happily do that for a living.

Are they telling the truth?

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Isn't Rinsing just another word for Sugar Daddies?



No, sugar daddies actually get the girl, live with, have sex with them etc.


The girls in this program seemed to state that had no contact outside of their paid meetings.
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I could happily do that for a living. 



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16 May 2012 09:13
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No, sugar daddies actually get the girl, live with, have sex with them etc.

The girls in this program seemed to state that had no contact outside of their paid meetings.



I knew a girl who did rinsing...she nearly always eventually slept with the guy to keep him onside...
Same girl got a sugar daddy, but found it to labour intensive...
Eventually she settled for normal escorting

And she came from a normal secure background, could easily get a proper job if she wanted, but was the first to admit that it was easier shagging guys for money in one form of or another than working in an office for £300 a week
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